Everybody is perfect they way they are!

Today's society is way to focused on outer appearance. Women are made to think they have to be a size 0 just to be considered attractive. I think thats horrible!

Women should be happy and feel good about themselves inside and out no matter what size they are. As long as they're happy with the way they are who cares whether their a size 0 or a size 18. I'm not saying we should eat fast food ever day until we can't get off the couch. I'm simply saying that as long as you're healthy and happy it shouldn't matter if you have a little junk in the trunk. 

All around us in movies, TV, magazines its portrayed that being thin is the way you're supposed to be. I was watching America's next top model when Whitney the plus size model won and shortly after winning she was in Cosmo Girl in a bikini. To me she looked like a normal size girl you would see at the beach in a bikini. So who decided what plus size was anyways? Just because she has curves and eats like a normal person we're calling her PLUS size that's outrageous. Then they wonder why girls are becoming anorexic and bulimic. Give me a break! 

To me plus size is when you have extra meat on your bones....not just having big bones! I'm not talking 5 lbs over your ideal weight either. I'm talking Lane Bryant shopping, a little flab under your arms ( ladies you know what I'm talking about..that old lady hang), your thighs actually touch, and knowing what your good angle is for picture taking so we don't catch that extra chin. None of this stuff is bad either every extra thing you have makes you who you are. That extra weight might make you the pleasant upbeat person you are. So if you have some extra pounds embrace them and enjoy your life. 

Every girl wants to be considered attractive whether they're willing to admit it or not. Every women is beautiful in her own way. Ladies don't ever let someone make you feel like your not pretty just because you have a little more to you. Just remember thats more of you to love and any guy who can't accept that isn't worth your time.

I have one more thing to say....Did you ever notice how big men aren't fat only fat women are fat..by this I mean that it's perfectly acceptable for a man to be overweight or even obese and that doesn't stop a women from loving him. But if a women were a bit on the heavy side she would be seen as lazy and unhealthy. Isn't that kind of unfair?