I believe that everything happens for a reason! I suppose that also goes with what doesn't kill you only makes you stronger!
As hard as both of these things are to accept I suppose its true. I mean really, think about it.....every bad thing that has happened during my life has taught me something or made me stronger as a person.
When you go through a break up with someone you love you think its the absolute worse. How will you ever be able to get over it? With some time, some tears and maybe some chocolate trust me you will and when you do you'll realize that your better off with out him! Of course that relationship was fun right and you'll never want to forget the good times and you sure wont forget the bad but now you've learned. You've grown as a person. Lucky you....you're one step closer to finding your prince charming! : )
How about when you go through hard financial times? Ring a bell for anyone? As much as it sucks to have to be broke all the time, to have to struggle to make that car payment or to find that extra cash to keep your car off check gage there is a reason for it. Did you ever think that maybe your supposed to learn to budget your money or that your being taught a bigger lesson....like you should appreciate what you have! There will always be someone out there who has less than you and now a days people always want more! Got to have the latest phone, hand bag, jeans, shoes, etc. I'm not saying that I never fall into that role because I do a lot just like most people. I'm just saying that maybe we're being taught a lesson. We shouldn't take what we have for granted! Appreciate that you have a cell phone that works....there's really no reason you absolutely have to go buy that new blackberry as soon as its released. Or for the Apple fans out there....the iphone. I know a guy thats been through more iphones than I've had cellphones and trust me those things aren't cheap. If you have an iphone is it really necessary to go buy a new one every time they release a new version?
Medical problems anyone? I myself am a narcoleptic. Now a lot of people don't think this is a serious problem. In fact my own family seems to think that it should be a breeze to live with. Well guys its not! In fact its extremely difficult to live with. As much as I could scream and shout about how its not fair that I was given this disability I can also look you in the eye and tell you that a lot of good has come from it too. There are a few main lessons I believe I'm suppose to learn from this but in all honesty I'm still working on learning them. The first is that being put in a tough situation doesn't give you reason to give up! You kind of just have to suck it up and accept that life wont be as easy as you thought. The second lesson I believe I was mean to learn is that I'm a lot stronger than I give myself credit for.
I've been through a lot of tough stuff this past year, year and a half. Being a young adult its been really hard on me. Taking on more problems than any one person should have to I can definitely say from experience that what doesn't kill you only makes you stronger!
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